When I was a kid, a patti narrated me a story in my village. A trader – who had business establishment in Malaya – married a local beautiful local woman (Patti didn’t tell me if the local woman was Malay or Chinese). The trader was already married in his hometown, which is in modern-day state of Tamil Nadu.
One point of time, the trader decided to return to his native village for good. He didn’t want to abandon his Malayan wife. So he took her with him.
Back then, I thought he was such a nice soul. Now I think, what a poor soul he was!!
His Indian wife and Malayan wife did not gel with each other, hence the trader built (or bought) a separate house for his Malayan wife. Fearing she might lose her property rights, his Indian wife harassed Malayan lady in many ways, going to the extreme of poisoning her.
Moreover, the hot and dry climate of Tamil Nadu distressed the Malayan wife too much. Unable to endure the emotional and environmental torture, the Malayan wife bid farewell to her husband and returned to Malaya. The trader longed for her and finally died.
I am not sure if it is a real story or a copy of Pururavas-Urvashi story.
When discussing about early Indian migration to Malaya (Modern Malaysia and Singapore), some claim that there were no Indians existed prior to colonial rule. This is inaccurate. India maintained ties with with Southeast Asia for centuries with Indian and Chinese traders used this part of globe for trade. This region adopted a multi-cultural environment and has fostered it to this day.
Many Indian traders, like the hero of this post, resided in Malayan land for trade reasons for many months/years. Although they were already married back home, they found another wife – Chinese or Malay – in Malaya. These wives were often rejected by the traditional Indian families, while the local women were equally reluctant to relocate to India.
Such marriages of convenience and the children born to them gave rise to a distinct community Chetti Melaka in Malaya, who followed Indian customs influenced by local traditions.
I’m writing 7 posts about this interesting community as part of ‘Blogchatter Half Marathon’ by www.theblogchatter.com. It is a non-fiction series. But I’ll try my best to keep it interesting.















